LX2 Codependency Coaching

Emotional Reprogramming

Today we are talking about changing how we process emotions by learning new tool and updating how we were originally programmed. We get to choose how we process emotions once we have more tools to manage the situations we are facing. #emotionalprogramming #doingthingsbetter #mentalhealth #lovingbetter #whatnowpodcast #lovingallofyourversions #changemindset

Not enough and too much at the same time

Today we are talking about not feeling like you are enough and how that can lead to you doing too much. We can feel like we need to validate our worth by doing so much more, we get angry, tired, and overwhelmed. It is helpful to pay attention to what we actually have capacity for. #lovingbetter #doingtoomuch #youarerenough #mentalhealth #codependency

Pattern, behavior, and meaning

Today we are talking about patterns, behavior, and meaning. We have the opportunity to change the pattern that happen in our lives by changing our behavior over time. We can shift the meaning we assign to things. #change #mentalhealth #shiftingpatterns #meaningandpurpose

Is this a me problem?

In relationships we often feel like we need to fix problems for other people to keep them in our lives. A helpful thing to start to recognize is IF it is a you problem or a them problem. Then we can allow space for people to address their own problems or for them to acquire tools to fix things for themselves. #notayouproblem #skillbuilding #mentalhealth #codependencycoaching 

Don’t just talk about it, be about it

Today we are talking about aligning our words with our behavior especially when we are creating healthy habits and coping skills. The idea of follow through.  Increasing our awareness of how we feel. Changing behavior requires action consistently. #newyear #healthhabits #goals #followthrough #mentalhealth

Wrap of 2023 Anxiety, loneliness, and depression part 2

Today we are talking about the end of the year. Looking back not just at 2023 but relistening to the popular episode of Anxiety Loneliness and Depression originally posted 7/25/2019 https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-krijt-b92c2f We are all doing the best we can. You have made it through the best we you can. Proud of you! #endoftheyear #growth #mentalhealth #gettingthrough

Parenting Challenges

Today we are talking about parenting and detaching from the outcome. The Nurtured Heart Approach is a parenting model I endorse. #toxicparenting #detachingfromtheoutcome #lovingbetter #raisinghealthykids

Being your Authentic Self

How we trust ourselves and show up fully we have to be aware of what our authentic self is. Being your most authentic self takes a level of knowing and appreciating who we are, all of our parts, at the same time. We have core values that stay static. Trusting yourself and being securely attached to you is being attached to those core values. #authenticity #lovingbetter #corevalues #betruetoyou

Breaking our own hearts

Often we can break our own hearts by holding on to unrealistic expectations or outcomes. We hold on so tightly and then we "should" ourselves into anxiety and depression. Once we can let go and just be present gratitude gets easier. #90scountry #unrealisticexpectations #lettinggo #shoulding #livinginthepresent

Emotional Hoarding

What emotions are we holding on to that are keeping us stuck. When we have hard things happen we assign meaning to certain feelings. Especially this time of year we have traditions and we get to assign meaning to those traditions. The meaning we place on those traditions is up to us. We get to change the meaning and the feeling associated to those experiences. #emotionalhoarding #makingmeaning #letitgo #mentalhealth #traditions